Embarrassingly, when it comes to personal finances like mortgages/loans etc I am essentially illiterate. I just don’t find it interesting and I am so risk-averse that it is almost pathological. I’m always convinced that house prices are about to collapse and that investing in the stock market is insanity, even though lots of clever friends and colleagues are very clear that is not the case, and live in nicer houses etc. The plan has always been to be debt free as soon as poss and any savings we have just go in cash ISAs.
So we’ve always lived quite carefully, in a relatively modest house (although in the grand scheme of things, particularly in the current climate, we are very fortunate). We took out our 25 year mortgage 18 years ago, and if we didn’t change anything could be in with a shot of getting rid of it by age 50. For some reason that makes me feel warm and fuzzy, but practically it would also allow some financial freedom to help out the kids as they start at uni (and god knows what that will cost then).
Recently though, as the kids get bigger and seem in need of more of their own space, we’ve been reconsidering moving to something more substantial - more of a proper family home than the maxed out converted cottage we have now. Our house is fine - kids have got their own room (albeit one of them pretty small single), some space to work at home, but it is just very cluttered and quite cramped as not much place for storage/low ceilings etc. We looked at a house in the next tier up today, and it was lovely with higher ceilings, larger rooms and just more space. Felt like a proper ‘grown up’s’ house.
But the next step up is a lot of money and so we would have to extend the mortgage term considerably to make it doable - so after the thoughts of getting shot of debt as quickly as possible, that makes me feel nauseous.
Logically, I’m thinking with interest rates so low, it’s probably a better time to borrow than ever.
I’d asked a couple of friends how long their mortgages were and was surprised that both of them were mortgage free, mainly due to family inheritances. I’m guessing that in early/mid 40s, that’s unusual so didn’t draw conclusions from that.
So - Is taking a mortgage until age 58-60 ish common/usual? Does anyone who’s done anything similar reflect on it as a good decision or does it feel like you’re restricting your life options to meet a monthly payment for longer than needed, for little real extra benefit. I regularly feel like I get sucked into thinking I ‘need’ stuff which, when it comes down to it, probably makes very little real difference to quality of life.
Feel like I’m rambling and am acutely aware this all very ‘first world problem’ stuff - but if anyone has any experiences of similar decision making, your thoughts would be appreciated.
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Look at it this way, 65 isn't retirement age anymore, and by the time you get to it god knows if there will even be a retirement age. If you can afford it and it will make the next 20 years of your life more pleasurable, why not?
Just because it is designed to be paid by the time your 60, nothing suggests you won't pay it off before then.
Personally the thought of having a mortgage any longer than that and having to work into my 60s to pay it off fills me with dread.
1 - MrsTheWeary’s house when we met
2 - the house we bought together
3 - extension to the house
It did mean that they got paid off at different times, we paid the biggest bit off early with redundancy money and the final other bit last year. So before we were 55.
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that is if I don’t move to a bigger house or quit my job/get fired etc... who knows what could happen in thIs post apocalyptic world we live in.
I, like you, hated the idea of debt and wanted my freedom back, so I cleared the mortgage as quickly as I could. From a purely economic point of view, this was nonsense and I should have put anything I had available after covering the minimum monthly payments on the mortgage into a pension instead, taking advantage of the tax breaks (i.e. 20% or 40% free money) available for pension contributions.
Speaking of which, not buying a bigger house will leave you with some money to invest into a pension, giving you the option to retire early if you are so inclined.
Confusingly, houses are part an economic asset we invest in and part a place where we live, and both aspects need to be considered when buying and selling them. Having a cheaper house and some savings gives you some freedom but less room to live in - a bigger house doubles up as your main investment and may bring good returns, but only if you are prepared to sell up and downsize eventually.
(sorry if all that was far too obvious, I don't even know why I started typing ...)
Bought within our means and did a lot of repair work on the house.
What you say about the duality of a house as a home and an investment is very true. I’ve always seen it very much as the former, but I guess considering the investment side of it makes it easier to rationalise extending the mortgage! I guess at least at the end of the mortgage, even if house prices went down, you’ve still got a decent roof over your head, whereas if I’d stayed in a smaller place, the lost money on a stocks investment, I’d be fecking livid with myself.