Having played the guitar for many years on and off , ive now settled to a routine of two nights a week without fail for a least a couple of hours or more , usually more on a Friday night with a bear in my shed so to speak .
I tend to play what I know to start off with and then try and learn something new , do you find this gets harder the older you get of is it just me . Obviously depending on what your trying to learn ? Chords and finger picking combined or solo's ?
Ive never played in a band and have always just played for me , saying that I did a a couple guns and roses tracks for my 50th birthday party and been told i need to play ! lol !
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I'm not locked in here with you, you are locked in here with me.
I’ll do a few hours sat at the computer on evenings at least twice a week, but generally that’s for fun. If I've got something to learn I'll do 10-15 minutes on it multiple times a day when I've got a bit of spare time.
I’ve actually found the opposite, if I’m honest. I’m in my fifties too and I learn faster now than I ever did when I was younger.
Not because my brain is magically better, but because my mindset is. I’m more patient, more deliberate and more willing to sit with something that feels awkward for a while. When I was younger I wanted things to work quickly. Now I’m happy to grind a little, to isolate the hard bit, slow it right down and keep showing up.
What does change with age is that you notice difficulty more. You’re more aware of what you can’t do yet, whereas when you’re 18 you just bash away and call it progress. That can make it feel harder even if it isn’t.
The routine you’ve built is good. Two nights a week, a couple of hours, beer in the shed, starting with comfort and then pushing into something new.
And the fact you pulled out Guns N’ Roses at 50 and people said “you should play” tells you everything. You’re not slowing down. It isn’t about age. It’s about attention and intent. You’ve got both.
Playing with people is a much better way to progress though. Try to do that too.
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I've been learning sound design, mixing, non diatonic harmony in my compositions and a bit of piano and it's not noticeably worse than at any other time of my life.
I would say as you get better it gets harder to make improvements. I'd have to put a lot of work in to improve my guitar playing as I've been playing for about 30 years now and I don't put anywhere near the hours in now that I used to.
Personally I find it easier to learn things on the guitar these days (I'm 48) than say 10 or 20 years ago, but I think that's just down to being more patient and more likely to stick to a routine.
If I had to guess I'd say there's probably a period when you're a child into late teens when your brain is very receptive and it's easy to embed things, and then a bit at the end of your life when your cognitive abilities drop off a bit, and maybe the middle bit is all fairly even (depending on external environment). That's just a feeling though with no basis in science.
also check out chunking so so taking maybe a finger picking exercise...chord changes ..or anything else your struggling with and repeat it every day for maybe 5 minutes each ...with regular repetition you nail it and then move of to something else you struggle with....that way you are putting your full concentration into one thing daily ....
with practice our minds tend to wander after so long and what was supposed to be dedicated practice of something becomes noodling what we know using chunking our concentration levels remain high ...
Iff 5 minutes is touch on each subject just lower it to a few minutes