Hi all
I'm going nowhere in my current work life and this needs to change as it's causing me a lot of stress and anxiety for no reward, so I've decided to treat myself as an objective exercise in evaluating what I'm better suited to. The general idea being, if I find something I'm interested in doing (as opposed to my current loathing of what I do), I could look to train in it in my spare time with no pressure before looking for a different job, not necessarily in a self employed environment as I'm not sure at present that would suit me, but perhaps ho knows.
One of the things my Mrs has said is to research what type of jobs self employed people actually do as it's a bit of a mystery to us both what other jobs involve outside of our areas (Mrs is accountant, I'm a reluctant Property Management Surveyor). We both kind of fell into our jobs without ever knowing what we wanted to do so have very little idea about alternative careers
So, self-employed types, what is your business? What are your services or products? Enlighten me
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Wow that's a lot of things man fair play to you
The Mrs is obsessed with me somehow becoming a bread baker though every time she mentions it she has forgotten two things - 1, that i'm not that good at it
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I'm not locked in here with you, you are locked in here with me.
All in all I just prefer to work for myself and like the freedom to go down the pub in the afternoon or the beach if I want to. The downside is no paid holidays, no pension or sick pay but you can set aside money from the good times to pay towards that.
I've no real skills or specific abilities, which is a hindrance. In a corporate world, being able to bluff and BS your way through things is a skill but sadly not in the real world. But you never know, if you don't look for it, I guess
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Also, and when I have time from painting - picture framing (I make all of my own picture frames but also for other people when I can spare the time), a bit of mid-century furniture restoration (although this is waning due to the ridiculous prices the eBay crowd are asking for stuff that needs work). Also a bit of buying and selling of post-war design stuff.. ceramics, glass, jewellery, furniture, lighting, art etc.
I’m mainly too busy painting nowadays though, so the other stuff is becoming less.
I think you have to have a few strings to your bow when being self-employed, or at least it helps to have a back-up for quieter days, plus it’s more interesting having multi skills.
Could you perhaps start your own venture within the area your currently working in or an offshoot of it , if you were in charge of things.
Try and think of something in your current job that could be done differently/ better and go and do that.
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- 2007 I graduated. Needed a job so I went for a job interview as a stocks clerk at Asda. After a day of absolute toss team building exercise type crap they make you do, I got the job. Turned up the following Monday morning. Shook my new bosses hand as I arrived and said "actually... I don't want to do this. Sorry!" and walked off. I couldn't stand the idea of being trapped at Asda for the rest of my life.
- After that I worked at a bar. The landlord was a fucking tool. He let racism run rampant in his pub by the clientele, and he allowed one of the rich farmer-wanker regulars to constantly make homophobic slurs at me every fucking Friday night. Hated it so much I quit just before Christmas to deliberately fuck him off. He didn't like it. Job done.
- Went home to visit my mum for Xmas after that. She bought a copy of BFD2 for a prezzie. At the time FXpansion had a deal for new users - buy BFD2 and get the BFD1 content for free. So I messaged one of the developers about this deal and at the same time asked for an internship. He invited me into the office, and it all started from there.
- My first job was as a technical support and QA engineer. But they called it a "gopher" - no literally... that's what I was described as! But I did the job to my utmost. Putting in so many long days, sorting out computer graveyards, learning how music software and operating systems all worked under the hood. I used to ship all of the boxes out by hand too - often carrying 100's of boxes from the lobby to the attic storage space we had in the office.
- This led to opportunities to go to NAMM as a Product Specialist and work on the booth. The first year I went was the first year (to my knowledge) that they allowed the general public to go to the show. Bloody hell it was busy.... 15 hour days followed by massive binge drinking sessions with all of our USA contacts who were at the show. It was so much fun.
- Eventually I became the QA Manager of FXpansion. Managing the QA team and managing our releases. There was a heavy dose of product feedback I managed too. If you ever gave me feedback during those early years, damn sure I brought it up in product meetings.
- Someone quitting culminated in me also becoming the Technical Support Manager. Which was easy enough because there was huge overlap between QA and technical support at FX. It was the same team! And I'd already unofficially been doing the job anyway, because the previous guy was too busy with other things.
- At the same time my mate and I spent a weekend tracking some drum samples for a project that would eventually become BFD Oblivion. This put us both on the path of being in-house sound engineers, audio and video editors, and sound content developers. We were very busy at this point, doing several jobs each.
- Eventually I became what I am today. The product owner for BFD.
Despite my legendary reputation on here (spanning over 12 years at this point!) I really am a nice guy!
So what's my point .... find that dogsbody opportunity, and really turn it into something. I have a mate who interned at the BBC. He didn't push it hard enough, and wasn't kept on as a permanent fixture. You really have to slog your guts out in those first few years.
And listen up - the older you get, the harder this becomes. DO IT. AS. SOON. AS. POSSIBLE.
Find something.
Remember, it's easier to criticise than create!
I'm employed full time now but I used to be a freelance software developer - Microsoft stack so mainly web stuff in ASP.Net - I got out due to IR35 and generally getting older and lazier with regards to finding new work. Being PAYE means I don’t need to find the next contract etc. which was starting to be a pain in the rear.
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Whilst 9-5 doesn't rarely exist, no use being a busy fool either and earning less than the min wage
I decided to have a go at painting professionally about 11 years ago and started putting work on Twitter, trying to attract a gallery to sell my work. In the meantime I continued running a landscaping business and just painted in the evenings and weekends. As I started to get interest from galleries and my work started selling, I finally made the swap to full-time artist in 2015 and haven’t really looked back. I could have stayed doing what I was doing, it was enjoyable and quite profitable and giving it up was a big risk but knew I’d always regret not trying to make a go of painting. I now have a good selection of galleries who represent my work and do plenty of commissions. I’m glad I took the risk!