I've been playing for years but only in the last 18 months pushed myself to get out there and join bands playing mainly rhythm guitar. I used to really struggle playing in front of just two other people (clammy hands, clumsy playing, forgetting stuff) I've overcome that to degree, but now I've joined an established local band as lead guitarist, and they have a gig in a months time!
Any advice for how to prepare for being up on stage playing in front of people, and not make a total hash of it?
I have enough time to learn the 12 songs, it's not particularly complex but they are mostly fast paced.
Wondered about forcing myself to play in public beforehand (not sure how/where) to prepare myself for this gig and try get over my fears or at least make some inroads into it?
I'm excited about it as well, getting to do what I could only dream of in the past, just don't want to let the band down!
Thanks for any suggestions!
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Recording is a great tool as above. Helps you focus on the bits that don't sound just right, as well as being a relentless run through of the songs to get used to making mistakes and soldiering on regardless.
In terms of fears, I was always worried that people would laugh at me / us owing to my playing. Having now gigged for a while, I know that the only person in the venue who is going to remember my mistakes 3 notes later is me. The average punter won't ever know and any guitarist will give you much respect for just getting up there in the first place.
Best of luck, and don't forget to have fun - your first gig is one you'll always remember.
i always found a pint before helps but other might not agree
- Practice standing up.
- Practice looking up.
- Practice with the band in
- Practice while recording to give yourself some pressure
- LISTEN to that recording and pick up what you can improve - timing, tuning, tightness with others
- Practice making mistakes - when you or someone else fucks up, look at someone else and grin AND KEEP PLAYING
- Don't be afraid to make notes on your setlist for starting chords/notes/keys/capo placements
- PRACTISE LOOKING UP
- Prep spares of everything that can break - strings, cables, patch cables. Put them somewhere that you can access easily.
- Practice the whole setlist on your own in order as if you're playing the gig
- Practice the whole setlist on with the band in order as if you're playing the gig, all laid out as if you're on stage rather than a rehearsal room.
- If taking multiple guitars, practice the changes between them
Good luck! You'll do fineI’m guessing that if your band mates want you there as lead, then that’s your toughest critics already onside.
I for one am full of respect for all those that do.
As others have said, practice standing up, and practice until you can't go wrong.
Find an open mic or two and turn up solo. If you can do that, you can play in a band.
Remember that every enormous hideous woeful mistake you make... will be completely unheard by 99.9% of the people in the room. Seriously. Noone listens.
Also, practice looking pointedly to your left and your right. Then, when you fuck up, you can glare at the bassist/other guitarist/keys player so everyone thinks it's their fault.
And know that you won't play your best. No-one ever does. So when you get compliments afterwards say "Thanks" not "No, I was shit".
Escape roots if you play a wrong note bend it and smile
If you get lost play a series of wrong notes and resolve at the next chord change
If you get really lost play some damped strings in time and resume
Dont drink until afterwards
Look slightly over audiences heads
Standing up playing was something that took me ages to get comfortable with, I rarely play sitting down now.
Will definitely try recording myself every time I practice, and will try the open mic thing either on my own or with one of the band.
I definitely wouldn't do any serious drinking beforehand, but wonder if one pint (or even just a bottle) before going on would help overall?
Imagine all the effort you have put in to learning songs, practising them, going to rehearsals, packing your kit, the whole caboodle.
All of that is so you can gig, right? So, tell yourself that you'll be bollixed if you're going to put in ALL that hard work and effort to get gig-ready and then not enjoy the gig. Wouldn't make sense, would it?
You will make some mistakes. Pretty much everyone does. But honestly, nobody will care so don't beat yourself up on it - laugh it off and go easy on yourself. Have a great time.
Playing in a band is VERY forgiving when it comes to guitar - once the drums and bass kick in you will find you can get away with absolute murder when it comes to flubs, missed notes, bad timing etc...
(T&C's apply within reason).
The biggest factor. CONFIDENCE. Way way more important than the gear you're using.
Never discussed on guitar forums - it's the difference between the amateurs and pros... play it like you own it (cos you know it inside out). Nothing gives you away as a hobbyist away faster than nerves, looking down at the fretboard, hesitancy.
It's taken me years to realise this and address it - and once I did my playing improved immeasurably.
Oh ... and most importantly. Have FUN. Cos it's a blast being alive and making music.
I used to work with a band that were pretty professional, but struggled when warming up occasionally, as they relaxed they became epic, at least until they overdid the drink/drugs. Many a night I would have to fade out the keyboard player as he was off his head! By then the audience were also to merry to care
Yeah, this is what I was going to say.
A pet hate of mine with band practice was where people would stop and start again if they made a mistake. Learning how to cover it up and keep going is a big part of being a band and what you have to do when you are playing live. As long as you keep smiling and don't stop 90% of people don't notice.
Also don't set up hundreds of sounds or anything complex.
Have a few patches, or a small pedalboard. Tap dancing, constantly changing guitars gives you more opportunities to screw up and it looks rubbish to the crowd.
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Good luck, and remember to enjoy it!
Make sure you can hear the bass and drums (and I mean properly hear - not just know they’re there somewhere) so that you ‘lock in’ with what they’re doing. Get a foot tapping - it will help you keep your phrasing and timing in good shape.
Confidence - remember that 99% of the audience would give their eye-teeth to be able to be able to do half of what you can do.