I can't really have one as I'm not in a band!
However, I have started looking again. I have an ad written in my head to try and start a band but I know a guitarist alone is a pretty poor place to start so I haven't tried that yet.
So,anyhoo, up pops an ad on JoinMyBand looking for band members that looks suitable.Quick bit of cross referencing. Hmm.This is two members of my old band ( which left last year and the band itself split after the singer had a heart attack this year) putting something together. Now, I left on good terms but part of the reason for leaving was finding these two rather hard work as people. Although, not unfair to say they were musically the stronger part of the band ( the one being an ex pro).
So, this is the most suitable thing I've seen for ages on various levels ( musically, commitment wise)and it has people I know. I guess if I replied with 'hello it's me' I'd at least get an audition.Although I really don't know if they'd welcome me back with open arms or not. Lots of guitarists around so if I prevaricate then I'm sure it would go anyway.
So, what's the worse that could happen if I called them up?
Have them tell me to go away. I guess that hurts my pride but that's about it.
Get the gig and find them as annoying as I used to and have to leave, definitely burning a bridge there and having to struggle through some unpleasant rehearsals.
Get the gig and plod on trying to see the bigger picture rather than just their issues ( loud mouthed racist and person with severe mood swings - not really sure how they get on).
its a small thing I suppose but it is a genuine dilemma.
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Was Emp your old singer? B-)
Can you work professionally with these two, even if you're not likely to be closest of friends outside the band?
Ringleader of the Cambridge cartel, pedal champ and king of the dirt boxes (down to 21)
that's a good idea - just see if I can be of help and see how it goes. The one guy had a lot of contacts with people in bands, made a big point of making contacts and would always have a list of people who could dep. However, he also tended to piss people off after a while so I suspect the number of people he has pissed off is now greater than the number he has contacts left for.
My last experience was with a 5 piece band, of the other 4 peeps, 2 were sound and 2 were a good laugh but always a bit flaky. I play primarily for my own enjoyment so for fun not profit. When my hobby got to be a constant drama of soap opera proportions I bailed and so did the other 2 solid band members. I am a twist not stick kind of person so its never again for me.
Do you need to play for money? If so is it worth the hassle of being in a band with 2 people you don't like? If they are reliable and professional I guess maybe that would make the decision a bit tougher.
I like playing the guitar but I'm not a great guitarist or have much time for it so a band gives that focus ( learning songs rather than noodling about) and playing a good gig is a joyfull experience.
I don't mind anything on the organisational side as I know there is stuff that has to be done.
Musically I'm quite open minded (or maybe I'm not..?) so I don't have a totally fixed idea of what a band would play but I know my strengths and limitations so that's more restrictive than what's on myiPod.
I don't have an interest in anything of the social side of it at all. I don't want to spend time with band members outside of a rehearsal room or on a stage if I can help it. I'm not unpleasant or anti social ( although this may be getting difficult to believe...), I'm just not very interested. To the point really where anything other than the job in hand in a rehearsal room annoys me - I don't want to leave the house to pay money to stand in a smelly room and listen to fart jokes.
So for me; loud mouthed racist + moody bastard + money grabber = no fun at all and probably a fight at some point.
Maybe better to find one person you can play and practice with who's not a pain in the arse then do some networking to find others that are suitable to meet your goals.
I feel I'm going off the idea; either put some proper effort into putting a band together or take up knitting.
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Ringleader of the Cambridge cartel, pedal champ and king of the dirt boxes (down to 21)
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