Our two kids started cross country after school on Wednesday and were entered into their first race on Saturday! They haven't ran before and whilst both being healthy the havent built up their stamina levels yet, but they seemed to enjoy it either way.
Some of the parents at the race were frankly embarrasing, screaming at their kids to run faster. One said to his kids (who both came in the top 20 out of 100 "that was crap, you wernt trying blah blah blah" really loud so everybody could hear. The kids looked so gutted and embarrased.
I'm all for encouraging kids to stretch their limits but bloody hell, some parents are bloody mad.
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Kids need to be kids and 5 days a week at school with homework is more than enough IMO. This smacks of competitive parents to me as well?
Back on sport I'm all for allowing competing and giving them opportunities but any parent that can speak to a child in the manner you describe should be fucking ashamed of themselves.
How about the other type of competitive dad!?
A former England Rugby defence coach, who now coaches a premiership side, who will remain nameless but is a car brand too, has a son who is a decent fly half, who will also remain nameless, but may have already got a couple of test caps.
Said Coach has become the world's worst rugby Dad. Truly. Using random names as an example
'My George (example name) is better the fookin' Owen. He played 10 in the juniors and fookin' Owen (example name) is playing for fookin' England just because of his Dad, Andy (example name)'
"Fookin' Owen is a fookin' centre, not a fly half. My George is a fly half..."
"My George (example name) should be playing for fookin' England, should my George..."
And I'm not kidding.
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that Renault is a right cock IMO.
mind you, young megane was on fire yesterday.
I'm not locked in here with you, you are locked in here with me.
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(but I did give you a wisdom)
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So hang on.....
Dear Mr Pushy Dad. You didn't manage to get good at these things. You settled for average. You used your time in other ways. So how come your kid has to be a world beater? How come what was ok for you isn't ok for your kid?
....and don't try the trite line regarding you wanting better for your kids than you had. How about you attain the same high performance levels of humility, self-control, positive criticism, support and enthusiasm for your kids' enjoyment as you're expecting from their sports prowess?
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I reckon if I'd given my eldest a bit more rein at the right time I'd not be paying the price for it now he's 6" 3' and probably able to deadlift me.
Competitive parents are ensuringtheir kids won't compete - successful atheletes from all over the world were asked what their parents said to them and the reply came back "my parents said I love watching you enjoy yourself".
All the stuff the competitive parents are shouting are known as injunctions, like fairytale curses you put on kids - "don't make it" or "you won't make it without me"... a pissed off adult will understand that, but a kid won't - what a kid will do is fail until the parent loses interest then find something else to do.