Devastating News

Nunogilberto · February 2017

Sorry to read that Tom. Wishing you both all the best.

stratman3142 · February 2017

Really sorry to hear your news.

TheBlueWolf · February 2017

Make the most of the time you have got. It's not going to make the inevitable any easier but you get to make some wonderful memories

ICBM · February 2017

I can't really think of anything to say other than this puts all the small stuff we have to deal with into perspective and makes it seem trivial, really.

cbilly22 · February 2017

Mate, that is awful. No words really but wishing you all the best.

Cirrus · February 2017

My condolences Thomas. I suppose all our days are numbered, we just don't all get to know what the number is.

I hope you can comfort each other and enjoy your time.

scrumhalf · February 2017

Sorry to hear that, wishing you all the best.

sweepy · February 2017

Try having a chat with your HR dept, you might be surprised, some of them are actually human

Ravenous · February 2017

thomasross20 said:

I only get 30 days a year, wish it was more. In charge of a mega stressful project now, too.

Screw work. (Many of us love our jobs, but there are limits to that.)

So if you can afford it, get out.

maltingsaudio · February 2017

Sorry to read that best wishes to you both

thomasross20 · February 2017

She said yes to marry me!

Going to try and do things pronto as she's said her side has been hurting for ages, so defo don't want to leave anything too late.

JezWynd · February 2017

So sorry to hear this. Best wishes to the both of you.

ThePrettyDamned · February 2017

thomasross20 said:

She said yes to marry me!
Going to try and do things pronto as she's said her side has been hurting for ages, so defo don't want to leave anything too late.

Congratulations!

You've had a pretty decent time of career in your life - perhaps it's time to say, fuck work, let's live some life.

I can very nearly guarantee you won't regret it.

thomasross20 · February 2017

I'm going to let her decide what we do. She's always wanted to move house so I'd need to keep working in that case. Large part of me does think... Stuff work and go as long as I can without it to spend time with her.

I have to say the support here is amazing.
I don't really have a lot of good friends so this is really nice.

ESBlonde · February 2017

I so sorry to hear your news. Last year herself had cervical cancer and was under the knife. The wait for results was crushing but we were lucky and got the all clear. I can only wish you great strength for the difficult times you face together. May you have blessings in many ways.

RaymondLin · February 2017

Sorry to hear about this Thomas, make the most of all the time, I'm not good with comforting words except if you want to talk, drop me a message.

Strangefan · February 2017

What terrible news, I hope she fights it all the way and you give her the best time she has left possible, my thoughts are truly with you.

Bellycaster · February 2017

That's so awful, really feel for all concerned.

RaymondLin · February 2017

For a bit of inspiration, I know a girl who is diagnosed with terminal cancer last year, her life since has took a turn for (at least what it appears on social media) to be wonderful time between her and her now husband. Her story even made the national papers.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-3618061/At-13-years-old-told-lobster-Heartbreaking-words-bride-told-terminal-cancer-days-agreeing-marry-childhood-sweetheart.html

http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/real-life-stories/incurable-cancer-im-happier-ever-9242631

http://www.express.co.uk/life-style/health/683095/medullary-thyroid-cancer-Royal-Marsden-Hospital-Emmy-Collett-tandemonium

They have also done lots of charity work including cycled to Copenhagen last year. So be positive, and live life to the max with all the time that is given.

ChrisMusic · February 2017

Some people can live more in a year than many do in a lifetime.

Our thoughts and hopes are with you...

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