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FWIW both my parents in law passsed away within the last few years and the value of a semi detached in Birmingham whittled down to about £20k between three children by nursing home fees.
Again, I dealt with it all quite badly. I should have passed on trying to manage my work and show any loyalty to the organisation that employed me. I should have sought good advice ASAP. I should have started applying for stuff, sorting out my qualifications, getting a proper CV ( I say that although I’ve never got a job through a CV in my life) ASAP too. Not only because it’s practical but because it gives focus ( more focus than watching every NAMM2017 video anyway). The job centre were actually quite helpful ( despite the sight grimness of it). You have to sign up to their job search site and they helped me sort out my professional registration ( they paid the £180).
I suspect the worry of it at the moment may well be worse than the actual event ( if it happens).
One tip.
Think about what skills you have (rather than in terms of "job" titles) and what you enjoy doing. Then think about how you can use those skills to earn some money doing something you enjoy?
The traditional "job" with a 30yr career path is increasingly a thing of the past.
I had been earning £30-40k and after some negotiation via my employment lawyer I got more of a payout than initially offered. I signed on for 3 months and got Jobseekers Allowance. Then a job ad came up for a franchise selling and fitting Hillarys Blinds so I invested some of my redundancy money in that and for the last year I have been self employed. The money isn't nearly what I was on but I did make profit in year 1 and year 2 should be much healthier so somewhere in the £25-30k area (with scope to grow that even more) working from home and being my own boss.
It was worrying for sure but not the worst thing that has ever happened to me.
My bro-in-law lost his job as a bank manager 6 months ago. He's in his 50s and worked for the same bank his whole life. He's now working behind a bar at his local football club and seems pretty happy.
The advice I can give is to act as though it’s going to happen. Review your finances and cut your immediate spending. Think about the type of job and lifestyle that you would want to move to. A lot of people who get made redundant in their late 50s decide to find something which bridges the gap until their pension kicks in. Maybe with part time or 9-5 work. They soon realise that they don’t need as much money as they thought. Work clothes, sandwiches, coffee, and commuting costs add up to quite a bit. They also realise how much more they enjoy life without the pressures of a higher paying job.
If you are made redundant then, from that moment, your work becomes looking for a new job. Running out the old job is a side show. Remember that your (ex) employer’s aim is to get you out with minimum cost, minimum disruption, and minimum risk of their process going wrong and creating a wrongful dismissal case. Then and there in the interview is the time to ask “what do you need from me during the notice period?”. Often it’s just tidying up, which lets you get on with the more important task of preparing for your next role.
Onto what I was actually going to write...
A chap at our work had been with the business about 40 years, but he had gotten too expensive to be acceptable to the business on the contracts at which he worked, so he became a bit of a target for a very bullying line manager.
One day, he had enough and walked out, no payment, no nothing. He had however paid off his mortgage and had minimal costs compared to his younger days, so he got a job driving a van around.
A colleague of mine saw him a few months later said he looked about 10 years younger.
I think we all underestimate sometimes the price in stress for higher earning jobs as we get older.
Good luck to everyone in the thread
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You have my sympathies - you won't get any from the dole office, they'll begrudge you £70 a week despite your paying umpteen times that in tax and NI for the last n years. But you should go there and claim, because even if you have so much savings that they won't give you any money, they will still pay your NI stamp, so you stand a better chance of collecting a state pension when it's time than you would if the NI people think you haven't contributed enough.
Don't let them pressurise you into taking a shit job just for the purposes of them taking you off their unemployment list. It will dirty your CV and then recruiters will assume you can't do your usual job instead of respecting you for doing anythng you need to in order to earn, in between your usual jobs. OTOH it could be just the excuse you need to take a completely different direction.
Most of all, DON'T STRESS. Ain't worth it.
Seriously: If you value it, take/fetch it yourself
Money really isn't everything.
I run a small business network and see a lot of people made redundant who are forced into working for themselves. Most actually succeed. You'd be surprised what you could do.
Remember, it's easier to criticise than create!
It's not the end of the world - Six years ago today (! - exactly today, I just checked !) I had a heart attack. If I hadn't made it that day, all of this would be irrelevant. It's just a bit of a pisser - when you've been looking forward to something and then something else comes along to crap on your plans.
Offset "(Emp) - a little heavy on the hyperbole."
Seriously: If you value it, take/fetch it yourself
You generally can't live life being 100% spontaneous and often, planning ensures you make the most of time you do have..
What is shit is doing nothing, complaining or constantly look forward and letting the moment pass you by.
I did what others have suggested - went home and got my finances in order before signing the paperwork. I got my handshake and was on the job hunt.
I had fancied being my own boss for a few years but didn't know what route to take or indeed how to fund a start up business. I wouldn't have quit my job to go it solo so actually redundancy was a help as my hand was forced, plus I now had a stack of money to get set up. A year on I am feeling far more comfortable with my decision/position and looking to build on the reputation I have gained locally in my first 12 months. I live within my means and haven't had to take any more debt on to survive so I'm happy with my lot, the only obvious change is that I don't go out to the pub every weekend which really is pissing money down a drain.
EDIT - and I still have the bulk of my redundancy left in my savings for a rainy day. Ok I'm earning less than I was but I'm not broke and now have that lump sum which I didn't have before! As outcomes go, it ain't bad.
Good luck mate, at least you can get rid of the debths, that’s a big weight off your shoulders.
Stay positive.