As a single parent who (to trot out the cliche) 'doesn't get out much', I've used Facebook as a way of keeping in touch extensively over the last few years.
As time goes on, I've found it tends to magnify more what's wrong with my life, than enhance it; lots of 'happy couples', lots of 'family' days out and lots of 'look how much I can spend on lunch' posts - not much in the way of 'actually I feel quite isolated' or 'I can't afford to do that'.
I've disabled my amount tonight, in an effort to wean myself off the addiction.
What are your experiences?
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Offset "(Emp) - a little heavy on the hyperbole."
It is full of empty talk. It's not even the depths of depravity -- at least that might be interesting.
A certain amount of empty talk is okay but facebook filled my life with it.
I do fb for the band; I have no personal account there. The world turns just fine.
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I check it once a week I guess, but that's it. It's just not very exciting.
And you realise how stupid people are when they post claims you can cure cancer with lemon juice because chemotherapy is just another cause for the money spinning machine.
It's a communications tool, not a measure of anything significant.
Oh your having such a good time are? So good that you interupt you good time to post on Facebook?
Oh look my child does what every other little fucker does - isn't he or she wonderful?
Had a good time last with insert friends names - well fucking tell them presumably you have their telephone numbers or will see them again.
I'm going to post 10 positive things everyday - why the fuck would you want to do that?
And don't get me started on narcassistic photos selfies etc.
Facebook is shite. I've mothballed my account for now but a full deletion is imminent.
Richard, are you content with life before you log on?
The grass is rarely greener on t'other side and for all you know these 'friends' who document their lives on Facebook could be desperately unhappy inside.
Some of the most content well rounded individuals I know don't even have a Facebook account and have no intention of signing up.
I'm not in any way jealous of those who are having a more fulfilled time than me - I'm very happy for them. It's just I perhaps don't want to draw the comparison between my current life experience and theirs too frequently.
Posts about those amazing happy family days out leave out all the bickering, arguments between mum and dad etc.
It's a very stylised version of someone's life that goes up there in many cases.
I love facebook for sharing photos of my friends and family and organising meeting groups of people. I live away from my hometown so find it easier than texting/phoning people.
Used properly it's a great tool, if you keep loads of 'friends' who just bitch and moan you're using it incorrectly IMO (not aimed at the OP).
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