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That was about 2 months ago, I'd been absolutely fine since then until 45 mins ago when I had to give a presentation to 6 people and nearly passed out beforehand, biting my fingers, running my hands through my hair, sweating, couldnt speak or make eye contact and got to the point where I was nearly crying because I was in such a state. Fucking horrible.
So I'm not sure if the confidence is a mask for underlying anxiety, or if - like monquixote suggests - I'm a confident person, because I seem confident and I just break down occasionally.
At any rate, I've spent the time since then feeling awful and I'm not feeling myself in the slightest.
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If it bothers you then it might be worth getting it sorted. CBT with hypnosis has a good track record of evidence for successfully treating performance anxiety.
When I say I wear masks, I really mean, I put a metaphorical* wall round myself, and don't let many get inside.
*My one use of a big word for today.
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time to time.
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That sounds a bit like the classic football manager post-match interview routine: "Anyone who knows the lad knows he's not that kind of lad".... when the lad in question has just broken someone's leg.
'Masks' are the result of social conditioning. If none of us had masks we'd be running around like feral animals, killing each other for food and mates. To say 'deep down I'm a good person' or whatever is self-delusional bullshit. Even shyness and self-doubt are a form of mask. Think of Freud's concept of the id - we are in essence selfish violent sex fiends; only our masks protect us from each other.
jeez that's scary
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I'm not locked in here with you, you are locked in here with me.
Exactly! Wearing a physical mask actually allows us to strip away the imaginary masks we truly wear. It's all played out in the Jim Carrey masterpiece 'Ace Ventura: Pet Detective'.
That looks like a designer cricket-box.
Actually I thought of another counter example too. Many people appear happy but aren't. In retrospect while the original idea is appealing in its simplicity but doesn't necessarily always apply.
I haven't had the time to get around to reading this thread up until now. I think these points are incredibly accurate and I think it is and extremely rare human being. Perhaps arguably psychopathic or at least incredibly narcissistic.
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FFS! OK, now you're just showing off.