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First I've ever heard of a push present.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Push_present
Seems to be "a thing".
An abhorrent thing, if you ask me.
Especially as OP sounds like he's doing a stellar job.
WTF!!!!
Way too TOWIE Made in Chelsea WAG. What happened to people just wanting a child and being happy?
I expect a bit of a flaming for this...... Would your wife have agreed to have a child with you if you weren't going to 'pay' her with expensive gifts? Was that as important as having a healthy child?
That is an extreme way of putting it perhaps but the whole 'expecting' an expensive present makes it look that way to a simple fellow like me. Sorry.
We are just happy to have a child that we love.
I've just clicked that link-pretty fucked up IMO, my girlfriend wanted to get married and I always said I couldn't afford to throw hundreds down on a piece of metal and stone-besides which, what the fuck does the man get? I told her to buy me Fender Jaguar and I'd get an engagement ring.
Were not together now (unsurprisingly) but the whole concept is pretty vulgar to me, but then again I'm not huge on material presents either.
I think if the unthinkable happened and my significant other was pushing for a push present I'd be getting her a gym membership to get that baby body back into shape, that'd learn her
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The best push present I know of was when my dad brought my then pregnant mother to the hospital to have me. He dropped her at the front entrance then pushed the accelerator so hard the car wheels spun and the car shot off into the distance.
Now that's a fucking push present.
He came back 2 days later, so it wasn't that bad.
A guy I know got told it had to be a Tiffany diamond ring or she'd say no. So he asked for a Rolex. They were both skint for a while... I don't get it but thankfully my g/f thinks the same
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Thankfully my second wife doesn't mind if I get it wrong or forget. Consequently she gets a lot more.
And try and get some normality even with a baby in toe. I've seen some dads take on more responsibility that normal and still holding a full time job, giving their partner lots of free time off (getting grand parents involved, etc), which actually has the opposite effect. They get less bonding time with the child but also come to expect that they are the princess and everything should go their way and they have actually done their part.
Without meaning to sound alarmist have a read on post natal depression. It used to be shrugged off as baby blues but it can be long term and hugely damaging.
That said it's probably just early days readjustment stuff. Take her out for a nice meal or a night away.
My brother bought his wife an ashtray for Christmas once.
It wasn't well received.