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I get very emotional about milestones in his life - his last day at primary school hit me like a train. I was really upset by it - I can't even explain why...
Since my ex-wife left us seven years ago, I've been on my own with him. I have had neither the time, or the inclination to seek another relationship.
Our job is to raise our children to the point of independence - I know when he leaves home it will be very difficult for me. But I will have done my job. As the words to one of my favourite songs say:
"I have walked a thousand miles and I have worked as fast as I can. And I have raised my precious child, to be a man".
LOL, I did, but just the once.
We have 18 year old twins , a boy and a girl, daughter is off to Epsom Uni Sept 10th and son will be off to, hopefully Coventry Uni next Sept ( had to resit the year owing to 3 months off with Glandular Fever )
It'll be nice not to have to queue for the bathroom, wonder why we get through a toilet roll every day and actually have food in the house !!
We'll miss the little buggers, but a telescopic sight should improve the aim ! seriously though enjoy the peace and quiet, you'll still be sending them Red Cross Parcels and transferring money left right and centre, but you'll have control of the remote and just think of all the catching upi you can do with old chums etc .
Frankly, I don't feel like I'll mourn me leaving either. I'm sure I will at least a bit though! And I'm CERTAIN I'll miss the financial support when I eventually leave. But I'd far rather live apart from my parents. Not certain that my family is at all typical though, and many people I know don't shut up about how they'll miss their friends/parents when they go to uni.
So, however afraid you may be, or however much you miss your kids once they're gone. We're just as petrified and wish for the days of primary school just as much as you do
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Time flies so quickly when you're staring into the future not enjoying the little things
as my kids become more independent my mother and mother in law become less so, the gap created by one gets filled by the other. Still, by the time my sons have children of their own they'll have to start looking after me...
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I imagine it will crease my wife up even more.
I remember the effect it had on my own mum, when we all eventually left. Quite a thing.
Life is for living though, not for moping in. I try to enjoy every bit of it, as it happens, rather than dreading what might or might not be. Could be dead this time next year, who knows?