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Seriously: If you value it, take/fetch it yourself
"Take these three items, some WD-40, a vise grip, and a roll of duct tape. Any man worth his salt can fix almost any problem with this stuff alone." - Walt Kowalski
"Only two things are infinite - the universe, and human stupidity. And I'm not sure about the universe." - Albert Einstein
I'm studying early years education at college, and we've recently started a unit on safeguarding. I understand that a child may be annoying and its easier to smack them and be done with it, however the possible effects on the child later in life are greater than just shutting them up for 10 minutes. Would you rather your child panic every time they saw a wooden spoon for the rest of their life? Ah no thank you
I have a short temper and my kids can no doubt describe shouty daddy to y'all ( recently rip plugs out the wall daddy...
(Our) children look to us to keep them safe, both physically and emotionally, so, how can we do this if we ourselves become an abusive object or figure in their mind?
Reason just doesn't work. A sharp physical shock can do.
And it's nothing whatever to do with abuse, aggression or physical violence to prove a point.
There is a huge difference between a flat hand used like that and a fist - not just a difference in scale, a complete difference in concept, and it's utterly ridiculous to equate the two.
In my opinion.
"Take these three items, some WD-40, a vise grip, and a roll of duct tape. Any man worth his salt can fix almost any problem with this stuff alone." - Walt Kowalski
"Only two things are infinite - the universe, and human stupidity. And I'm not sure about the universe." - Albert Einstein
In nature you will see adult animals "cuff" a naughty cub. It is a simple action that is used to instill the correct social behavour.
I often wonder if the increase in anti social behavour and lack of respect to others come from "not" giving the occasional smack. Again as others have said this is not about abuse of children which is a whole other world. I have three Adult daughters . I would say they have only had a total of three smacks between them growing up. My wife would shout at them , usually a stern look was enough from me.
I'm not locked in here with you, you are locked in here with me.
Seriously: If you value it, take/fetch it yourself
In the case if biting, I have heard parents say that they do the same to the child (not full-on obviously) but to show that it does hurt. It often stops it straight away.
Seeing a child restrained, as an example, just to take medicine and you see the fear and panic set in. Personally I can't see how that is any better that a quick slap or smack, and as above, it could actually be worse.