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If behaviour is abhorrent then family don't get a special pass from me.
I didn't choose them and I don't see why objectionable behaviour you wouldn't tolerate from a friend gets allowed because they just happen to be related.
Consequently there are a couple of family members that I don't speak to by choice and one that I won't be in the same room with.
But we all have different relationships with our family so I don't judge another for making choices.
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Football is rubbish.
However, basic manners dictate that you don't express every opinion in every situation. As a simple example, let's say you don't like a particular guitar. A friend says "I'm thinking of buying one of these"; at that point, saying you don't like it is fine. A friend says "I've just bought one of these" - at that point it's not so fine to piss on their chips.
Having opinions is one thing, articulating them willy-nilly is another.
Sounds a bit like my mum. She was very much a hippy when I was growing up and also voted leave when I voted remain. Never crossed my mind that I should be falling out with her over it. Thanks for the heads up. I'll drop her an email to let her know.
She voted leave and i couldn't care less so we're all normal.
If it matters to you then just go and face her with it but i wouldn't expect an ounce of sense if i was going to my Mum with the same feelings.
She's from a different era and thinks differently. She's never accepted that about me but i did about her a long time ago.
I might not talk to them because of the latter, but not the former.
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Football is rubbish.
Deal with the racism later if you feel you must but right now your father is the priority surely?
As my closest surviving blood relative apart from my son, I've come to accept that gently trying to nudge her in the right direction is as far as I can go. Other than my influence on my son, I have come to accept that the only person whose attitudes and values I am responsible for, are my own.
While you may dislike her views, it does not undermine what she has done for you as a mother - I feel late in her life it would be quite wrong to ostracise her.
The whole brexit debacle has become tribal. It's Team Leave vs Team Remain, the issues have ceased mattering since the whistle has blown so it's all points-scoring now. The more riled up people get during the post vote arguments, the more emotional investment they give their team.
Those who are very competitive and stubborn might even get to a point where they value their team allegiance more than they do their own family, strange as it might seem.
I think there's positive bigotry and negative bigotry. It's up to the individual bigot to decide which their own brand is.
People who justify their racism by saying they have a right to be racist are simply assholes.
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Football is rubbish.
As a guy in his mid fifties you should know better, be a bit more calm. Alternatively, you can stand by you beliefs and never see your mum and dad again: a bit of a pyrrhic victory, but a victory none the less.
On the other hand, you've managed to start a thread in which @Emp_Fab makes a post that paints him as a walking continent of common sense.
My dad had a stroke earlier on in the year - I counted my blessings that I was around to play a part in his recovery, rather than the anger ridden sidelines that I've occupied for years.
So next week, a family, despite not sharing much common ground, will get together for the common good...it might be the last time my parents see all their kids together in the same room. It's an important moment for us all, and I'm just about grown up enough to swallow a bit to play a part in it.
All the best James...these situations are difficult. My one regret is slamming the door a little bit too tight shut, and barricading the bastid. I should have left it slightly ajar, and that is completely down to me.
@Sporky, GIYF