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How decent you are is basically determined by your bad days.
Anyway, if it really bothered you, say something to him and see just how much of the attitude is a front.
I love people and bringing out the best in people, but as I said I've only ever acted like that when I was around particularly pompous and noxious and close minded feminist academics with tenure or a small group of racist Swiss people, but it wouldn't have mattered what I said or did in the situations, it occurred to me that I was basically there as a pet dog who should be happy to be thrown a biscuit every now and then. I don't operate on that level and believe that everyone is on the level. I usually walk away as soon as I can, but if I can't I get so drunk I end up urinating on the table. If someone feels like that it reflects pretty badly on the rest of the people I think.
Despite your best efforts I wouldn't take it personally, all you can be is open hearted and receptive and try again without making judgement calls.
Although the hard truth might just be that he hates Australians?
Also you don't drink which doesn't help and let's face it, you are extremely middle class.
It's all coming into focus
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edit.
I can only conclude that either you are genuinely sociopathic and a massive intellectual bigot and worldly snob or more realistically, the guy was acting out of his work shell protocol and had something else on his plate and you are far too sensitive and nice. Although it may have been splashings of both. Life's complicated, but seriously no reasonable people act like that unless there are some issues going on.
And...if all 4 of you are Australian....then what exactly are you doing here? Next time invite me, feed me 20 pints and you'll all be best friends with a common enemy.
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The woman will marvel at your patience and ability to be a gracious host.
I'll welcome any soul any time. But they don't like it, there's the door. Life's too short really.