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@holnrew thanks - I'll take that!!
@sweepy I PM'd you
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Offset "(Emp) - a little heavy on the hyperbole."
I sent work a few e-mails just to see how things are but they seem so stressed and focused on things since the company is thinking about going private, and it's all about timescales. I feel people are jockeying for position (it used to be so good..) and I personally feel a little under-appreciated as a designer given I do more actual design work than some principals... so Sheena says give it 6 months "after the event" and look around. I just get so stressed and down even thinking about going back.
Thankfully my TO-DO list is a little shorter now so can spend less time doing tasks and more time together. I feel my whole take on life is sort of changing, and after all these years of me being meek, I'm starting to step up and tell people how it really is - sort of like how Sheena has been ever since I met her (but in a good way!). She sent her son a big text asking why he hasn't made any effort or asked about the cancer in all the 18 months she's has it but he tried to wriggle out of it. It's not him "coping," as people suggest - he's just selfish and a bit of a hedonist. He'll never get that time back. I feel quite angry now actually - maybe this is one of the "phases." I just want to shout "F*** off" to the world!! (Not you guys, though!! )
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I think you should give him a bit of a break. It is his mum and I daresay he's feeling pretty bad about stuff. I'm sure he is being "selfish" but that's what coping is - looking out for oneself. I don't think other people putting pressure on him to deal with things the way they want him to will do anyone any favours.
You and Sheena have enough to deal with without taking him on as well.
its easy to get caught up in the drama especially where families are involved. But the whole thing is a massive injustice so it's really easy just to want to rail against everything
The boy will be fighting his own battle and he'll carry that with him all his days. Just get through today and start again tomorrow mate
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Wasn't me but I've often hit lol by mistake on the mobile site while scrolling
I can't really rationalise my behaviour - even with 34 year's of hindsight. I think the whole situation was too 'big' for me to cope with the emotion of. What I am clear about, is I behaved badly and let someone down when they needed love ones the most. I'm pretty ashamed of this - but hope sharing it may help you accept his behaviour. There's no room for anger - please just try to let it go.
With regard to your work frustrations, let those go too. There will be a point where you will want to go back, if only because it represents some kind of 'normality'.
As others have said, taking things day-to-day is really all you can do.
As ever, I wish you both the very best.
I'm not sure what to suggest regarding Sheena's son; he knows the situation and he's old enough to decide for himself. That's not meant to sound as harsh as it might come across
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There's more to it, but that's the gist. When people say it's a coping mechanism... it really isn't. Sheena knows her son and I'd like to think I know him too. He's decent but in my mind, a little selfish and a bit of a hedonist. However I'm here for him and I let him know what's going on. He'll never get that lost time back, or at least I hope he would. I'm just glad that he's in touch a little more now.. but given he had to be prompted with a "die in peace" message, I can't be sure how genuine all this is - I just hope Sheena can take some comfort in it. Between him not seeming to care, her eldest daughter being autistic and her youngest daughter clamming up and not talking about it, she feels a lot of love but also heartache for her children.
@richardhomer your dad will have known you loved him. He'll have known.
Anyway it's a brand new day and there's loads to do!
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One last point its perfectly okay to think step children/your own kids are twats!!!
Catch you later
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She's been in hospital overnight for two blood transfusions. Was in A&E for 4 hours waiting next to a criminal in handcuffs..! Also discovered she has steroid-induced diabetes so that's something else to keep on top of.
It's a good thing I'm off work as she needs the help now! The tiredness has increased big time, the tumour is so big it's pushing the stomach out. We have a wheelchair and other home aids are on order. Getting a stair lift but I want to make sure the bannister will go back on ok.
Lots of fluid build up in her legs. Something to do with the liver not processing protein.
Err, lots more but been busy with house stuff as well. Got a little trip to Arran which was good. My phone died , had to get a new one. Cornered the doctor to ask how long but no re answer given. Whilst the steroids have made her body bloated, other parts like her arms appear thin. House visits are family only now. Friends who reconnected when they found out and said they'd always visit.. haven't really kept their promises.
That's all for now!
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