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Wives pretty much put a stop to that
Thanks.
It's going well so far and we're going to try to keep it more fun this time. She's moving out for a year or two, not far at all and she's still wearing her engagement ring so we're still serious. We both need more identity and *some* space - those who've been to my place will know how small it actually is so this isn't a total surprise but it's worked out well and we've remained best friends so there's a future. With our history, we're not brand new and we have something behind us but I guess this makes it feel brand new again and if that works, which it does then so be it.
It's been fun so far. Probably more fun than we've had in years so QED.
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It does require a little more investment, both in kit (i.e. you need to be able to record yourself) and time, but the kit can be had for less than £50 (a simple audio interface and REAPER's trial) - I appreciate the time might be harder to find.
When I was getting back into playing, it made me feel like I was playing with a purpose. I've mainly done the "Solo of the Month" challenges, which I found easier because you're given a backing track to play with. I've ended up playing things I never thought I would.
It's getting motivated enough to start learning that I find hard at the minute.
However, if she is in the same room, my wife objects strongly to the acoustic sound of an electric guitar, so it can be a challenge nonetheless!
Recording might be a good idea period!
i get the same so have slightly changed the dining room from an eating room into a room where we eat once a week and i keep my guitars :-) even then i get the occasional complaint that im hitting the strings too loudly lol
Which means I know just about every nursery rhyme, christmas song and CBeebies theme tune you can imagine and play them any time and anywhere I'm asked. Would I rather be working on my Clarence White crosspicking licks? Probably. Would I rather the guitar was in its case? Definitely not.
And obviously I don't know your other half, but I find that the above builds up a lot of spousal goodwill too. Make your guitar playing something that makes your kids happy - mums tend to look benevolently upon things that make their kids happy.
Edit: I may be confused about who exactly has "spousal grief" - if that is a real term