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And maybe you can also stick some Clarence White licks into the theme from Balamory (or whatever, my CBeebies knowledge is very out of date!)
I pinned it down recently to me trying to learn to play Lead stuff when it just doesn't seem to be 'in my bones'.
I've just concentrated on rhythm (and my right hand which I've really ignored too much). Maybe coming from acoustic guitar is part of that.
Pretty sure Steve Vai said even he just concentrates on the stuff he's good at. I'm not going to be playing in a covers band where you have to cover loads of genres. Find any basic stuff you enjoy and get good enough at that first to a point to where you can start enjoying the playing and not concentrate on technique all the time. That's what I have found has kept me motivated at least.
That's sort of 'holding pattern' I'm using until the kids get old enough that I can devote on average an hour a day to start doing stuff that pushes me more (and frustrates me)
Like the poster above, I think you'll find you're better than you think. Alot of those little errors you hear playing solo get covered when playing with others. I'm involved with a local venue and some of the desk multi-track recording we listen back to of bands have some pretty rough guitar and yet the gig had been great overall.
Nursery rhymes make for great ear training - seeing how quickly you can find such a familiar melody on the instrument is a great exercise and while the kids are singing the words, internally you can be singing the scale degrees to yourself.
You can also write songs for the kids that incorporate things you want to work on. Everyone’s a winner. For me it even precipitated some GAS...the purchase of a bathroom guitar so my good ones don’t get overhumidified from being played at bath time.
I remember doing Flint Stones Theme and thinking it is a bit corny, then I found Barney Kessel playing it and Stuart Ryan does a great version - even the chord structure gives you plenty to work on - again play around with it until you make your own version
If you pack it in you lose all that effort you put in. I wish I could play. My elbow is trashed right now. Don't know if I'll play again and I'm forced into learning keyboard instead.
OP - everyone needs a stress relief outlet, and if playing the guitar is it for you, then talk to your wife. She doesn't have to like it, but she should respect that you do, and that it makes you happy. That alone should be a reason enough for her. Mutual respect for each other and all that. Good luck mate.
OK guitar playing can be a costly, loud and time consuming hobby but hobbies are important as relief from the daily grind. It's people who don't have hobbies that worry me.
After all there are many worse things you could be doing like gambling for instance.
I got through some of the childhood years by playing in the church music group which happened to rehearse at the same time as the childrens club thing in the same church FTW.
It's actually really easy.
Then play along with the theme tune.
You won't want to give up after that.
Anyway, i am currently waaaay out of my comfort zone playing in a new band with 3 classically trained musicians. They have to translate what i play to one another but theory aside i am not actually out of my depth. Which is lovely.
So OP - Stick at it, or take a break. If you enjoy it it'll come back to you. If you let it not be fun it won't be
I'm in the same boat as you. I haven't played properly for 18 months. I managed to get a couple of hours in a few weeks ago but with 3 a year child, a dog and a job that takes takes me away from home working long and irregular hours it's very frustrating. I'll never stop thinking about playing I just don't have the time to do it! Gone are the days (at least for now) of playing for 9 hours a day non stop for a week! I'm 48 and although I don't practice right now it's still all I think about. I'd hang in there at some point you'll have more time on your hands than you know what to do with. I took a 12 year hiatus from the guitar from 1994. Massive mistake. I really wish I hadn't.
Thankfully it's pretty easy easy to get back to being a competent guitarist pretty quickly. Keep it dormant, at some point you'll be able to go back to it.