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Now this WAS on my Epi Dot, so somewhat noisier than the average electric unplugged ... but ...but...
I used to play (badly) when younger, not v accomplished, crap guitar. Stuck it in the corner when I got married and kids came along, had the odd desultory twang but nothing that could really be deemed 'good' or 'progress'.
Things changed for me when my kids grew up a bit: both played instruments, my son on drums (he's now teaching them!) and my daughter in the end got a guitar. I was so proud taking her round the shops trying out every left handed guitar in the place. And because I had so many bad habits we got her a teacher... and my wife unbeknownst to me bribed the teacher to stay on and give me a lesson, too.... And through a succession of teachers (flaky bunch, musicians) we persevered.
So at the age of 44 there I was lining up with a bunch of kids to take my Rockschool Grade 5 exam
I continued with lessons (Trinity) through Grades 6 and 7, my daughter and I encouraging one another although we don't really jam: she hates Led Zep and I'm not much of a fan of Taylor Swift. My wife encourages me, doesn't get too vexed about my ludicrous GAS attacks and seems to believe that there are far worse things I could be addicted to/wasting my money on.
My point? I suppose that for me it's been cathartic coming back to playing in middle age. Having lessons and doing exams has provided some focus rather than endlessly playing Iron Man. And the involvement and sharing with my family has been a blessing.
Recently we had a pretty bad bit of family difficulty/illness (which is still going on) and for a while all the music went out of me. Just couldn't pick it up, just like the OP's sentiments seriously considered flogging the lot, knocking it on the head. Can't say what really changed but one night everyone had gone to bed and I sat up, took down my old strat and had a noodle. And it chilled me right out. Since then I've been back at it with a vengeance. My playing is still not much to write home about but it relaxes me, which is good for everyone, and the obsessive poring over the classifieds on here stops me looking at porn.
Conclusion? I think we can all go through down times when we feel unmotivated, stressed, 'depressed' and certainly not in the mood to make sweet sweet music. I've found my own way through just picking up a favourite guitar and noodling about. Not trying to impress anyone or necessarily 'improve'. Thinking of shifting most of my pedals, downsizing the amps and going the Zen way. Ultimately, it really really helps bust the stress.
Apols for the autobiography. As I said, the OP struck a chord. Hope you regain your mojo.
& that way you can pretend your interested in them
Just sitting & playing the unamped Guitar,Will improve your playing,playing without an Amp maybe isn't everyones(or anyones)cup of tea,but it's a whole lot better than packing in.
It is a constant comfort separate from my career
I don't expect to make money from it, and never started it with the intention of providing entertainment for other, I did not feel a drive to "perform"
For me it's like painting watercolours at home, it is definitely as good as meditation for me
the 2 approaches I take are:
playing along to famous tracks is ok sometimes
I am surround by guitars but they're being made for other people. I play mine maybe 30 mins a week if I'm lucky. My amp (JMP head and cab) now resides at the mum n laws because until
i build my new workshop/showroom I have nowhere for it.
One guitar and no amp.... sometimes I wonder why I bother tbh.
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If you haven't tried it, 'rocksmith' is surprisingly entertaining when you're not in a band, but seriously uncool - Gets you playing music you normally wouldn't touch on.
I'm in Rugby, and although I am a bit of a 'mature' git, you are welcome to come over and get some practise in with me if you fancy it.
My wife is not a guitar music fan either, but is cool with me being one (sort of)!
I would buy a modeller (doesnt have to be fancy, 2nd hand zoom or pod 2nd or boss gt1 would do) , with an aux in and a headphone out, get onto guitarbackingtrack.com and start learning some songs using YouTube.
You'll learn loads, feel like you are progressing quickly and your wife won't have to hear a thing.
I've got an 8 month old at home and my playing has definitely taken a turn for the worse in these 8 months. Just don't have time to play apart from band practice every other week and the odd evening at home. Band practice isnt exactly helping with my playing though as we rarely do anything that stretches me, but it's the only time I get to use a real amp for more than 5 minutes so it's kinda worth it just for that! Still sometimes think about packing that in though - the time could be better spent playing at home stretching myself and writing better music, but then it'd all be through headphones which is a somewhat depressing prospect.
So 30 years on and I dabble playing out. nothing major. I have 8 really good instruments and 3 amps.
Mrs S has a problem with me playing in bands. It comes out that I dont get on with bandmates. I point out that I dont get on with anyone. But as soon as something goes slightly wrong, it's musicians who are the problem. We can talk about idiots at work, our dysfunctional familes and flaky friends, but musicians? So having worked out she had a problem, we had a talk. It wasnt a pleasant talk but we came to a resolution.
I still do band stuff but I dont complain about it.
IMHO (and agreeing with Alnico) have a chat with your wife about guitars.
Im happy to book a local practice room where we can make some noise!
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